Every baby will be an independent individual, and the most gratifying thing for parents is that their children can communicate with the world independently.

Bao Ma @ Anan Cai from Lilac Mom App "parenting education" told everyone about her "social cow" baby development.

Recently, a new word-"social arrogance" has become popular.

Contrary to social phobia, social cattle people are not timid in social aspects. When this symptom happens to my 9-month-old baby, it is much more interesting.

Social cow disease, using this word to describe my baby, is simply too appropriate

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A baby who will flirt in 9 months.

My baby is the kind of person who laughs at everyone, whether it is a familiar person or a stranger. Take the initiative to greet people when you see them.

Once I held her in the elevator and saw the takeaway brother holding milk tea in his hand. She excitedly pushed me hard, while her legs slipped straight down, and she kept laughing at my little brother. The little brother took the initiative to say hello to her, and she laughed even harder. After the little brother got off the elevator first, she still cocked her head and looked at it until the elevator closed.

A few days ago on Halloween, Bao Wa went to the mall to play. She is not afraid to see many people dressed strangely, and she is especially excited to pat others on the shoulder, or she will not let go of others’ bags. Once, a handsome guy was walking in front, and she caught someone’s backpack belt, and they were looking back, and she smiled at them. It seems to say: hey, handsome guy, don’t go, add a WeChat. This little girl, only 9 months old, is going to tease her?

My mother plays with her baby downstairs every day. My baby can often see the landlord. After a long time, the landlord is familiar with her. Sometimes people are too busy to pay attention to her, and they cry and ask for a hug, which makes them laugh.

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Another time, I came back from the mall after 9 pm. When she saw the security guard at the door, she took the initiative to say hello to others. The uncle of the security guard, who is in his 40 s and 1.8 meters tall, is usually unsmiling and is also laughed at by her. Also said to her: Good evening, little friend. I guess what people are thinking is: this little girl is not afraid of me.

There are countless things like this.

Although my baby is still young, I can’t tell whether it will be this kind of personality in the future. But there is a saying, "A leopard cannot change his spots. From a high probability, I still hope that she can maintain such a character.

Cultivate "social cattle" babies

We do this.

A writer once said: As a parent, the greatest achievement is to cultivate children who get along with the world.

In fact, the reason why my baby has such signs of "social cattle" is because we are consciously cultivating and exercising her social skills.

Spend more time communicating with your baby every day.

Especially in the first six months, my husband and I spent time talking with our baby every morning. Even if it’s just simple words like "ahhh", "yaya", "doll" and "mom". Every time I talk to her, the baby is very happy.

My baby loves to laugh, probably because we often give her smiling faces.

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Give children a sense of security

I have been doing psychological construction for my baby for a few weeks before I went to work after maternity leave. Tell her: mom is going to work, but she will come back as soon as she gets off work.

Although the baby didn’t understand, he always insisted on doing so. After work, every morning before leaving, I will smile and say goodbye to my baby. Going home at night to wash your hands is also the first time to hold the baby and tell her that mom is back from work.

These rituals will make the baby form a habit. The mother will disappear for a while at a fixed time every day, but she will come back and give the child enough sense of security. Instead of disappearing suddenly, it will make the baby feel scared.

Take the baby out more.

Because of the epidemic, in fact, we rarely take our baby to crowded places, but whenever we have the opportunity, we will take her outdoors or to the playground. Every time she sees other children playing, she makes a hullabaloo about excitedly.

Being able to adapt to the outside world is the most important.

Regarding the baby’s personality, many people think extroversion is better than introversion. But in my opinion, whether extroverted or introverted, they all have their own wonderful things.

Parents just hope that in the future, they can get along well with things around them and better adapt to changes in the outside world.

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　　Cctv news: Pay attention to the latest change in civil aviation. From January 1st next year (2019), China Southern Airlines will withdraw from SkyTeam. Many people who often fly want to know whether the points are still valid after quitting the league. Can I still use the package I bought? What will happen to flying in the future?

　　According to the staff of China Southern Airlines, China Southern Airlines withdrew from SkyTeam on January 1, 2019. 2019 is a transition period, and passengers can still enjoy the same services of the alliance. Passengers who purchase tickets from China Southern Airlines and travel before or including December 31, 2019 can enjoy the same services as SkyTeam, such as redemption of points and lounge service. Passengers who have purchased SkyTeam package tickets and China Southern Airlines tickets sold by SkyTeam member companies still enjoy the same transit service, lounge service and frequent flyer miles service. During the transition period, China Southern will no longer sell SkyTeam package products.

Wu Guoxiang, General Manager of China Southern Airlines International Cooperation Department

　　Wu Guoxiang, General Manager of China Southern Airlines International Cooperation DepartmentWe are also negotiating bilateral cooperation with more airlines around the world. In the future, passengers of China Southern Airlines can not only enjoy the service resources of the alliance, but also enjoy the effective connection between such service resources and flights of other airlines in other alliances.

　　News background: What is an aviation alliance?

　　Many passengers may not know, what is an airline alliance? How does the airline joining different alliances affect our passengers’ flight travel?

　　An airline alliance is a cooperation agreement between two or more airlines. At present, the three largest aviation alliances in the world are Star Alliance, SkyTeam and OneWorld.

　　For airlines, the alliance can provide a larger aviation network for a single airline, share maintenance facilities, operating equipment and staff, and support ground handling and empty kitchen operations to reduce costs.

　　For passengers, as long as they become VIP customers of any member in an aviation alliance, they can get the corresponding rights of other member airlines in the alliance and enjoy membership treatment in points exchange, VIP room use, priority boarding, upgrade service, transit and luggage.

　　Professor Zou Jianjun of China Civil Aviation Management Cadre CollegeFor ordinary people, it means that I can go to those places and how many flights I can choose in a day. Now their alliance or deep cooperation is actually providing us with this convenience. Simply put, it is accessibility, which has been greatly improved.

　　It is more convenient for domestic and foreign airlines to cooperate with passengers to take the flight.

　　In recent years, China’s aviation network has been expanding, and the cooperation between domestic airlines and foreign airlines has been deepening. After China Southern withdraws from SkyTeam, it will strengthen cooperation with American airlines. So what changes will the in-depth cooperation between domestic and foreign airlines bring to passengers traveling by air?

　　From 2019, China Southern will cooperate with American Airlines to expand code sharing. After in-depth cooperation between domestic and foreign airlines, first of all, in terms of ticket purchase, passengers can choose more cross-border flights.

　　Wu Guoxiang, General Manager of China Southern Airlines International Cooperation DepartmentAfter the implementation of the sharing and cooperation agreement, it has extended to 21 cities in the United States through the hub of American Airlines. We have 64 flights between China and the United States every day by China Southern Airlines and American Airlines.

　　When flying, domestic and foreign airlines will cooperate to achieve "one vote to the end" for cross-border flights. Take Guangzhou to Washington as an example. Before cooperation, passengers need to buy tickets for two trips from Guangzhou to new york and new york to Washington, and go through check-in and baggage check-in procedures twice. After the cooperation, the check-in procedures during transit will be omitted, and at the same time, the membership mileage and lounge of the two airlines will be shared.

　　Professor Zou Jianjun of China Civil Aviation Management Cadre CollegeThis kind of cooperation between overseas airlines and domestic airlines will make it more and more convenient for us people to enter and leave the country, which means that we will have more and more redundancy.

　　Cctv newsRecently, the Ministry of Ecology and Environment and other 16 departments and units jointly issued the Action Plan for Noise Pollution Prevention and Control in the 14th Five-Year Plan (hereinafter referred to as the Action Plan). The relevant person in charge of the Atmospheric Environment Department of the Ministry of Ecology and Environment answered the reporter’s questions on the background and main contents of the Action Plan.

　　Q: Please introduce the background and basic orientation of the Action Plan.

　　A:Report to the 20th CPC National Congress of the Communist Party of China stressed that the task of ecological environment protection is still arduous. General Secretary of the Supreme Leader pointed out that China’s ecological civilization construction has reached a window period when it has the conditions and ability to solve outstanding problems in the ecological environment. With the remarkable achievements in the battle against pollution of blue sky, clear water and pure land, people’s expectations for the quality of ecological environment are getting higher and higher, and their tolerance for ecological environmental problems is getting lower and lower. Noise pollution has increasingly become the hot spot and focus of centralized complaints in the environmental field. In 2021, the national ecological environment complaint reporting management platform received more than 450,000 reports from the public, of which noise disturbance accounted for 45.0% of all reports, ranking second among all environmental pollution factors. Strengthening the prevention and control of noise pollution is an urgent need to solve the environmental problems that are strongly reflected by the masses, and it is a concrete embodiment of adhering to the people-centered development thought.

　　In order to actively respond to the people’s new requirements and expectations for a beautiful environment, thoroughly implement the spirit of the important instructions of the Supreme Leader General Secretary "to be quiet, harmonious and beautiful", and the Opinions of the Central Committee of the Communist Party of China and the State Council on Deepening the Fight against Pollution (hereinafter referred to as "Opinions") requires that "noise pollution prevention and control actions should be implemented to speed up the resolution of outstanding noise problems that the people care about". In accordance with the decision-making arrangements of the CPC Central Committee and the State Council, the Ministry of Ecology and Environment, together with the Central Civilization Office, the Development and Reform Commission, the Ministry of Education, the Ministry of Science and Technology, the Ministry of Industry and Information Technology, the Ministry of Public Security, the Ministry of Civil Affairs, the Ministry of Natural Resources, the Ministry of Housing and Urban-Rural Development, the Ministry of Transport, the Ministry of Culture and Tourism, the General Administration of Market Supervision, the Railway Bureau, the Civil Aviation Administration and China National Railway Group Co., Ltd., jointly compiled the Action Plan.

　　The Action Plan is based on the great opportunity of the implementation of the Law on the Prevention and Control of Noise Pollution in People’s Republic of China (PRC) (hereinafter referred to as the Noise Law), focusing on outstanding issues closely related to the people, fully considering the characteristics of noise pollution prevention and control, and systematically planning the noise pollution prevention and control work to be mainly carried out by various departments during the Tenth Five-Year Plan period. Compiling and implementing the Action Plan is of great strategic significance and leading role in realizing the continuous improvement of acoustic environment quality, is the practical embodiment of comprehensively studying and implementing the spirit of the 20th Party Congress, is an important measure to thoroughly implement the supreme leader’s ecological civilization thought, and is also a concrete action to speed up the solution of the people’s urgent problems.

　　Q: Please briefly introduce the main contents of the Action Plan.

　　A:The Action Plan consists of 10 chapters and 50 articles, and constructs a "1+5+4" framework system: achieving "1" goals and continuously improving the quality of the national acoustic environment; Deepen the "5" class control and promote the steady improvement of noise pollution prevention and control level; Strengthen "4" aspects and establish a basically perfect management system for noise pollution prevention and control.

　　Achieve "1" goals.Guided by Socialism with Chinese characteristics Thought of the Supreme Leader in the New Era, the Action Plan fully implements the spirit of the 20th National Congress of the Communist Party of China, thoroughly implements the thought of ecological civilization of the Supreme Leader, and takes "laying a good technical foundation, filling shortcomings in fields, strengthening weaknesses in mechanisms, and paying close attention to the implementation of responsibilities" as the general tone, further clarifying the thinking of noise pollution prevention and control during the Tenth Five-Year Plan period. Through the implementation of noise pollution prevention and control actions, we will basically grasp the pollution status of key noise sources, continuously improve the noise pollution prevention and control management system, effectively implement pollution control responsibilities, and steadily improve the level of governance; To implement the requirements of the Opinions, by 2025, the compliance rate of the national acoustic environment functional zones will reach 85% at night, which will promote the continuous improvement of the national acoustic environment quality.

　　Deepen the "5" category control.Take various measures to promote noise pollution control and steadily improve the level of noise pollution prevention and control: First, strictly manage noise sources, improve relevant planning requirements, optimize the construction layout of noise-sensitive structures, strictly implement pollution prevention and control requirements, pay close attention to product quality supervision and popularize advanced technologies. The second is to deepen the prevention and control of noise pollution in industrial enterprises, set a benchmark for industrial noise control, strengthen the management and control of industrial parks, and promote the implementation of pollutant discharge permits and the management of key pollutant discharge units for industrial noise. The third is to strengthen the prevention and control of noise pollution in construction, popularize low-noise construction equipment, implement the responsibility of noise control in construction, and tighten the construction requirements of concentrated areas of noise-sensitive buildings. Fourth, increase the prevention and control of traffic noise pollution, strictly supervise and control the noise of motor vehicles and ships, strengthen the maintenance of highways and urban roads, refine the requirements for noise pollution prevention of urban rails and railways, and deepen the noise control around civil airports. The fifth is to promote the prevention and control of noise pollution in social life, strictly manage the noise in business premises, create a quiet atmosphere in cultural places, refine the management requirements of public places, carry out entertainment and tourism activities in a civilized manner, and improve management measures focusing on community and neighborhood noise to jointly safeguard social harmony.

　　Strengthen "4" aspects.With the goal of establishing a sound management system for noise pollution prevention and control, we will strengthen the following four aspects: First, lay a solid foundation for acoustic environment management, carry out the delineation and evaluation of acoustic environment functional areas, promote the delineation of areas where noise-sensitive buildings are concentrated, release information on noise pollution prevention and control, and promote the implementation of local responsibility for improving the quality of acoustic environment. The second is to improve laws and regulations, strengthen the support of science and technology education, promote the convergence of relevant laws and regulations with the Noise Law, improve the standard system for noise pollution prevention and control, strengthen scientific research education and personnel training, and promote the transformation of scientific and technological achievements. The third is to strengthen monitoring and strict law enforcement, strengthen the management of acoustic environmental quality monitoring sites, promote automatic monitoring of acoustic environmental quality in functional areas, strictly enforce the law in the field of noise pollution prevention and control, and enhance the ability of grassroots law enforcement. Fourth, pay close attention to the implementation of responsibilities, guide the whole people to govern together, promote the coordinated linkage of noise pollution prevention and control, optimize dispute resolution methods, strictly assess accountability, promote the construction of noise pollution prevention and control teams, and build a good situation of social co-governance.

　　Q: Please briefly introduce the outstanding features of the Action Plan.

　　A:As a guiding document for noise pollution prevention and control during the Tenth Five-Year Plan period, the Action Plan further consolidated the work foundation, strengthened key control measures, refined the requirements stipulated in the Noise Law, improved the concept of social co-governance, and strived to gradually meet the people’s growing needs for a harmonious and peaceful environment. Mainly reflected in four aspects:

　　The first is to highlight the foundation.The Action Plan was jointly compiled, improved and issued by 16 departments and units. Combined with the work foundation of major functional departments in noise pollution prevention and control, the Action Plan defined tasks in improving laws and regulations, improving the standard system, improving the monitoring and supervision ability, and detailed requirements in enhancing civilized consciousness, encouraging advanced demonstrations, and advocating joint governance by the whole people, so as to jointly build a big pattern of noise pollution prevention and control step by step.

　　The second is to highlight key points."Action Plan" focuses on the key concerns of the people, implements the whole process supervision of source prevention, transmission control and receptor protection, and strengthens positive guidance by setting a benchmark for noise pollution control, grading and classifying construction sites, and building a quiet community to build a harmonious living atmosphere. Clarify the control measures of key noise sources, optimize measures according to the detailed construction requirements of key industrial enterprises and noise-sensitive buildings concentrated areas and the characteristics of traffic noise and social life noise, and gradually improve the level of noise pollution control.

　　The third is to highlight the law.As an important supporting document to promote the implementation of the Noise Law, the Action Plan fully follows the requirements of the law, and on the basis of accurately grasping the new provisions, new systems and new tasks of the law, it extends and refines the relevant provisions, and the specific content does not exceed the legal boundaries. The basic provisions of the Noise Law (the first seven chapters) have been implemented in the Action Plan, and the promulgation and implementation of the Action Plan is an important embodiment of the full implementation of the Noise Law.

　　The fourth is to highlight social co-governance.Based on the basic principle of social co-governance in the Noise Law, the Action Plan clarifies government responsibilities, strengthens departmental coordination, strengthens linkage between the upper and lower levels, deepens autonomous management, optimizes dispute resolution methods, and implements nationwide actions, fully guarantees the people’s right to participate in the supervision of noise pollution prevention and control, mobilizes and exerts social forces to jointly control noise pollution, and promotes the formation of a peaceful and harmonious civilized consciousness and social atmosphere.

　　Q: How to implement the Action Plan?

　　A:In order to implement the Action Plan, complete the established objectives and tasks, prevent and control noise pollution and protect public health, the following key tasks will be done in the follow-up.

　　The first is to strengthen the division of labor.The Ministry of Ecology and Environment will, together with relevant departments, incorporate the tasks and objectives of the Action Plan into its work plan, promptly formulate and revise relevant supporting laws and standards, and promote the implementation of all work in an orderly manner; Departments will strengthen coordination and timely coordinate and solve the difficulties and problems in the process of promotion; Promote the linkage from top to bottom and implement the responsibility of noise pollution prevention and control step by step.

　　The second is to strengthen guidance and supervision.Guide all localities to combine the actual needs of noise pollution prevention and control management, clarify the division of responsibilities in a timely manner according to law, establish a coordinated linkage mechanism for noise pollution prevention and control, and formulate an action plan or implementation plan for their respective administrative regions; Promote the implementation of the tasks and objectives of the Action Plan, strictly supervise and assess, and ensure that all measures are implemented.

　　The third is to increase publicity and guidance.Strengthen publicity, interpretation and technical guidance to ensure that relevant departments, localities, enterprises and grassroots mass autonomous organizations understand, grasp and implement the relevant requirements of the Action Plan, enhance public awareness of noise pollution prevention and control, effectively play the role of social supervision, and work together to promote the formation of a social co-governance atmosphere in which everyone is responsible, everyone participates and everyone benefits.